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Friday, December 28, 2007










One thing I regret in my life was not being able to return to Vietnam to see my grandmother, before she passed away. I often wonder what happened to her, my uncles, aunts, and cousins after I left. I had the opportunity to have my questions answered when Unlce Hy visited me in 2007.


Vietnam was leaning towards communism in 1971. Because Uncle Hy was an officer for South Vietnam, he was put in prison many times. While he was in jail, Mom married my stepdad. After marriage, Mom and dad filed papers for our passports. Grandmother Ly was happy that we were going to live in a better place. At the same time, she was sad, because she was losing her only daughter and grandchildren.


Mom and Grandmother Ly kept our plans a secret. If communists knew, they would have arrested us. After we said good bye to Grandmother Ly, she went to see Uncle Hy to tell him that his sister and nieces have left for America that morning.


The fall of Vietnam was unavoidable as the years pass. While we were taking our freedom for granted in America, Grandmother Ly, Uncle Hy and his brothers were suffering. Not only did Viet Cong arrested Uncle Hy again, they also took my 7 year old cousin into captivity. With the help of a friend, the guards set my cousin free. Uncle Hy spent many years in a prison camp. The first two times he tried to escape, Viet Cong captured him, and returned him to camp for a beating. However, he did succeed in his third attempt. Uncle Hy knew he had gained his freedom, as he sailed towards America in a over-filled boat.

Thursday, December 27, 2007


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Sunday, December 23, 2007

Ready, Set.. Goals


Assignment: Write out some goals that you would like to accomplish. These goals should include your personal goals, but also goals as a family.


While setting goals, try to write out small attainable rewards for each goal accomplished!


1 Corinthians 13: Christmas Version


If I decorate my house perfectly with plaid bows,
strands of twinkling lights and shiny balls,
but do not show love to my family,
I'm just another decorator.


If I slave away in the kitchen,
baking dozens of Christmas cookies,
preparing gourmet meals
and arranging a beautifully adorned table at mealtime:
I'm just another cook.


If I work at a soup kitchen,
carol in the nursing home,
and give all that I have to charity;
but do not show love to my family,
it profits me nothing.


If I trim the spruce with shimmering angels
and crocheted snowflakes,
attend a myriad of holiday parties
and sing in the choir's cantata
but do not focus on Christ,
I have missed the point.


Love stops the cooking to hug the child.
Love sets aside the decorating to kiss the spouse.
Love is kind, though harried and tired.
Love does not envy another's home
that has coordinated Christmas china and table linens.


Love does not yell at the kids to get out of the way,
but is thankful they are there to be in the way.
Love does not give only to those who are able to give in return;
but rejoices in giving to those who cannot.


Love bears all things,
believes all things,
hopes all things, and endures all things.
Love never fails.


Video games will break,
pearl necklaces will be lost,
golf clubs will rust,
but giving the gift of love will endure.


--Author Unknown

  • Ouch, This poem hits home. As a homeschool teacher, mom, and wife, I tend to forget to have some quality time with my kids . I'm a one-track mind. I tend to focus on completing "to do" list, and spending time with my kids as second priority. I would convince myself that there will be some quality time later. The problem is there is never a "later". Something always come up or I'm too tired. My goal for 2008 is to spend more quality time, rather than quantity time with my kids. Time is quickly flying by.



This goal will have an immediate reward, as well as in the long run. I want my children to know that I love them through my actions, and not just words.

  • Less time on blogging, and more time with God. The reward for this goal is unmeasurable, because I will have peace.
  • Be a better aunt to my niece, rather than being critical. Restoring love and respect will be a big reward for me.



Friday, December 21, 2007

Busy as a Bee


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I can't believe we're half way through our winter vacation. It seems like we're constantly going somewhere. We began our Christmas break (December 1) at Busch Gardens.



Two weeks later, we returned to the park for more fun with our friends.

Because the temperature was in the 50's and many people were getting ready for Christmas, the park was not crowded. It was so nice not to have to wait in long lines. As a matter of fact, the kids rode several rides twice.


Between our trips to Busch Gardens, Fun Christmas activities kept us busy .



Katherine's Christmas musical production at church.

Communicators for Christ Christmas production

The best part of our Christmas activities was visiting Charles Dickens and his wife, Clement C. Moore, P.T. Barnum and Beatrix Potter at the Crosley Estate. Our hosts greeted us as we entered the mansion. During the performance we moved from room to room to enjoy interactive theatrical presentations of these holiday stories: A Christmas Dinner from Sketches by Boz, The Tailor of Gloucester, Christmas at the Cratchits,A Christmas Carol, T'was the Night Before Christmas, and finally, Herschel and the Hanukkah Goblins.

Beatrix Potter volunteered Mark to do sound affects.


Casts of the Christmas at the Cratchits

Katherine gets some acting pointers from Mrs. Dickens, who narrated Herschel and the Hanukkah Goblins.




The festivities end with caroling in the courtyard.

Sleep in Heavenly Peace

Thursday, December 20, 2007

Thankful Thursday

What are you thankful on this Thursday? Lynn and other Thankful Thursday Bloggers would love to hear from you. Just click on the above icon.

  • I am so thankful for my strong marriage. While many of my friends are going through tough times, mine is firmly grounded.
  • I am thankful that my dear husband's love language is service. For our summer vacation, he worked on my mom's house. He is currently spending his Christmas vacation tiling the guest bathroom, before my side of the family comes visit for the holidays.
  • I am thankful that Jesus is present 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.



Wednesday, December 19, 2007

Happy Birthday, Jesus

It's Wordless Wednesday, hosted by Tiany. If you would like to participate, please click on the above picture.






If you would like to participate in Tackle It Tuesday or to see other participants, Click on the icon.

I've been homeschooling my son for 7 years and my daughter for 5 years. As you homeschool moms know, we have to keep our kids' schoolwork for accountability.

My Tackle It Tuesday for this week is to store their schoolwork in a big bin.



December 22, 1990
After shopping all day for Christmas presents, Prince Charming and I stopped at Cracker Barrel for dinner. While waiting for our table, we were analyzing mind boggling puzzles in the gift shop. Of all the puzzles, removing a ring from the horseshoes was our favorite.




Of course, it didn't take Prince Charming long to figure out the solution. I, on the other hand, had some difficulties. Before I could figure out the solution, we were called to our table.

Not wanting Prince Charming to have the victory, I purchased the puzzle. While waiting for our food, I twisted and turned the horseshoes until the ring fell onto my dinner plate. The clang was so loud that everyone in our dining area turned around and stared at us.

After such an embarrassment moment, Prince Charming still proposed to me that night. We were wrapping Christmas presents, when he nonchalantly told me to wrap a box. Because I didn't recgonize the package, I peeked inside. I was surprised, when I saw a diamond ring.

Our engagement didn't become official, until my dad gave us his blessings.

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Monday Meanderings

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Bible Study- When Godly People do Ungodly Things by Beth Moore.

Must Do:

  • Monday: Busch Gardens

  • Tuesday: Christmas cookie exchange & Christmas performance at a nursing home
  • Wednesday: Clean house, grocery shopping, get ready for company

  • Thursday: shopping with grandma, start planning Christmas dinner

  • Friday: skating, pick up uncle from airport

Train Them Right- We must be alert of what we do , because little eyes are watching us. Our children are more likely to imitate our bad habits faster than our good ones.


I am retraining my kids to have only one serving per meal. Not until I had to change my eating habit, did I realized that I was unconsciously training my kids that it was a mandatory to have a second serving.


If you would like to participate in Menu Plan Monday or to seee other Monday Meanderings participants, Click on the icon.

Monday: Chili (excellent for dinner in a winter day in Florida)

Tuesday: Broiled salmon, salad & pasta

Wednesday: Spaghetti, garlic bread, salad

Thursday: Hot chicken wings, beans, cole slaw, potato salad

Friday: Bourbon chicken & fried rice

Sour Cream Drops



Christmas cookies
Yields: 2 1/2 Dozen

Ingredients

1/4 cup Shortening
3/4 cup Sugar
1 Egg
1/2 cup Sour cream
1/2 teaspoon Vanilla extract
1 1/3 cup All purpose flour
1/4 teaspoon Baking soda
1/4 teaspoon Baking powder
1/4 teaspoon Salt

Instructions
In a mixing bowl, cream shortening and sugar. Add egg, sour cream and vanilla. Combine dry ingredients; add to the creamed mixture. Chill for at least 1 hour. Drop by tablespoonfuls 2 inches apart onto greased baking sheets. Bake at 425 degrees for 7 ot 8 minutes or until lightlybrowned. Remove to wire racks to cool.

Burnt Sugar Frosting:
2 tablespoon butter (no substitute)
1/2 cup confectioners Sugar
1/4 teaspoon vanilla extract
3 to 4 teaspoons hot water

For frosting, melt butter in a small saucepan until golden brown; stir in the sugar, vanilla and enough water to achieve spreading consistency. Frost cooled cookies.

Thursday, December 13, 2007

If you would like to participate in Friday Show and Tell or just want to browse, Click on the link above.

As I mentioned in the Holiday Open House 2007, My Christmas tree is filled with my kids' pictures. I have purchased many craft frames through the year. However, it's now harder to find them. While cleaning my desk last year, I found some old 3 x4 phot0-insert Christmas cards. Needless to say, I depleted the supply. I had thought about buying some fancy ones for a couple of pictures this year. Instead, I made new frames out of old Christmas cards.

Wednesday, December 12, 2007

Here are My Hands






These hands belonged to my dear husband. He made it for his mother, when he was in the second grade. My dear mother-in-law gave this to me, when we celebrated our first Christmas with our firt born in 1995.





These hands belong to my son. He and his Pre-K4 teacher made it for us in December 2007.




These hands belong to my daughter. She and I made this when she was 5 in 2002.




If I had my way, my kids wouldn't have believed in the tooth fairie, Santa Clause, and the Easter Bunny. I wanted them to focus on the birth of Christ and His resurrection. However, a family member persuaded me that it was best for the kids to believe in Santa and the Easter Bunny. If they didn't believe in Santa and the Easter Bunny, the kids would have teased them in school.


I regretted the decision, because I was being a hypocrite. It's not all right for them to lie, but it's fine for me to stretch the truth. I can't imagine the hurt my daughter felt, when she found out that there was no such thing as the tooth fairie, Santa Clause, and the Easter Bunny.

Summer 2007


My daughter doesn't like to read. Therefore, I was thrilled when Lisa Whelchel's Creative Correction caught her attention. She read the book to see if I had applied any rules in our home. She read the book as if it was a novel. As a matter of fact, she stayed up past midnight reading it. Not thinking about the contents in the book, I encouraged her to read on.


The book and the lies came back to haunt me. While we were riding our bicycles, she asked me if there was such thing as a tooth fairie. Not wanting to hurt her feelings, I danced around the question. When guilt overcame me, I apologized for lying and told her the truth.


Since she knew that a tooth fairie didn't exist, she began to question me about Santa Clause. and the Easter Bunny. This part was hard, because I knew this was going to hurt her more. After telling her the truth, I gently reminded her that Easter and Christmas are all about Jesus, not about Easter Bunny and Santa Clause.

Tuesday, December 11, 2007


After signing on with "Tackle It Tuesday, I've been cleaning, cleaning, cleaning. So far, I have tackled 3 closets, and I am not ready to stop.


I don't know what overcame me last Thursday. When I woke up that morning, I wanted to clean my refrigerator. That was a rare moment, because cleaning and decluttering are not in my vocabulary.


My husband doesn't recognize me, but he loves the change. The new me reminds him of his grandmother, who made out a daily "to do" list. She didn't believe in cluttering. When my dear husband was a young boy, one of his old toys mysteriously disappeared, everytime he received a new toy.

Back to business, tackling the hall closet.

before

After


Monday, December 10, 2007

Monday Meanderings



Bible Study- When Godly People do Ungodly Things by Beth Moore.


Must Do:

  • Finish week one of When Godly People do Ungodly Things before Wednesday night Bible Study Class.
  • Clean classroom
  • Practice Communicators for Christ Christmas play
  • Steam-vac carpet
  • Dust and vaccuum living room
  • Filter VHS videos

Train Them Right- Carry out an instruction, as directed. Don't alter it because it is incovenient.



Monday: Parmesan chicken, green beans, salad

Tuesday: Salmon, Asian Salad

Wednesday: Chicken Caccitorie

Thursday: Bourbon Chicken, fried rice

Friday: Left-over


Ingredient :

  • 3 cups sweet potato -- cooked and mashed
  • 2 each eggs -- beaten
  • 1/2 cup milk
  • 1 cup sugar
  • 1 teaspoon vanilla
  • 1/2 cup butter
Topping :

  • 1/3 cup butter
  • 1/3 cup flour
  • 1 cup brown sugar 1
  • 1 can chopped nuts .
Instructions:

  • Mix potatoes, sugar, eggs, vanilla, milk, and butter together and pour into a greased 9x13 inch casserole.

  • Cream butter, brown sugar, flour, and nuts. Sprinkle on top of sweet potatoes. Bake at 350 degrees for 30 minutes.


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